In the hustle of life a person may encounter some adversity, or may be provoked and find himself eager to retaliate. It is better, however, that as one goes out one should intend to forbear and forgive. Anas ibn Malik quotes the Prophet as saying: âDoes any of you find it too difficult to emulate Abu Damdam?â When they asked who Abu Damdam was, the Prophet answered: âWhen he started his day, he said: âMy Lord, I make of myself and my honor a gift to You.â He would not respond to abuse, injustice or physical attack.â
The hustle of life is full of psychological and social incentives. Responding to these is well engrained in human life. We need to explain how prophets responded to these in order to fully appreciate the last Prophetâs attitude to them. All prophets were ordinary people like us. Their supreme status did not relieve them of the burden of their duties. In fact, they were more severely tested and had to struggle harder. Scholars say: Infallibility did not exempt any from being tested.
Take the example of the Prophet Joseph who was falsely accused and unjustly imprisoned. As a human being, he disliked captivity and was eager to regain his freedom. Hence, he said to his fellow prisoner as the latter was about to be released, âRemember me to your Lord.â Why shouldnât he when he was unjustly imprisoned? His inmate knew him to be a man of great integrity, highly honorable and sincerely devout. A word from him to the king whom he would be soon serving could bring Joseph his freedom. Hence, Josephâs request.
It was Godâs will that after his release, that prisoner should forget all about Joseph, which meant that Joseph stayed in prison for several years. Then the day arrived and the king sent for him after he had interpreted his dream. By that time, however, Joseph was more mature and his dignity was enhanced. Hence, he demanded that the truth about his case should be known first. He would not leave prison until all has been cleared. Therefore, when he was ultimately released, he was placed in charge of Egyptâs affairs.
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) made a comment on Josephâs attitude. His comment shows his humility and self-effacing attitude. He said: âHad I been imprisoned as long as Joseph was, I would have gone with the messenger.â What he meant is that he would have grabbed the chance that was certain to bring about his release. He would not have insisted on the women, who tried to seduce him, to be questioned.